[Howe’s Hunter]

there was a lot in a Mastro auction last year that I was interested in, but knew I wouldn't be able to make a run at. I contacted the folks at Mastro, and explained that I knew it would be unethical for them to tell me who won the lot, but would they be willing to let the winner know I would like to be in contact with them. They asked me to write a letter to the winner, explaining my situation, and they forwarded the letter on to the winner at the completion of the auction. Several days later, I heard from that winner, and have been able to talk a lot about cards with them since, and would consider them a friend.

Guess I'm saying it doesn't hurt to try and work backwards towards what you want.