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That's the thing, this is an issue of professionalism. These texts from him are clearly not professional and nothing would convince me they were. Cake and dinners are not invitations for sex and that's exactly the kind of thinking that people are trying to end. Just because a woman is nice to you or would like to have a professional relationship with you, that's not an invitation for constant flirting or unsolicited photos of your body.
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In the texts back and forth she didnt stop texting him after the photo...so you cant say its unsolicited, there is some type of approval going on, as she continues to text him She isnt a 22 year old out of school....shes a 14 year experienced big time attorney (with sex descrim cases that she has handled no less on her record) Just because a woman wants to be your friend doesnt mean a man has to be their friend. For lots of people in their busy lives, they have time for a girlfriend but not another friend. He may already have lots of friends. She had unique access to him that her male colleague likely did not. She played a part in all of this is all that i am saying, its not like she just got out of college etc. I know if i asked a guy i just met if i can meet him for dinner and invite him over a night for carrot cake, you can say all you want about professionalism etc, society would view that as a bid odd especially early early on in knowing someone. Change the guy to a younger woman meeting with a man, and not sure what change of thinking would be needed. Can always do lunch meetings during the work day, that screams professionalism to me versus late night dinners and carrot cakes at someone's house but maybe thats just me. If you could tell that he wanted more than just dinner, how come she couldn't... Last edited by 1952boyntoncollector; 12-19-2017 at 04:23 PM. |
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I guess if we find out she sent him a shirtless photo then we could make an inference...............
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It’s not that difficult. Ask yourself how cool you would be with some dude doing this to your daughter. Probably not one bit. You’d want to hunt him down and bust his kneecaps. Same answer when it’s someone else’s daughter.
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If your daughter was in her mid 30s a hard core litigator and litigated sex desrim cases and has millions in the bank i would assume she could take care of herself.
I would probably tell her that having dinners late night with people you do not know well at their house may not be very professional as well and not advisable if she is not looking for a new boyfriend etc.... We also forget Buccigross was not exactly killing as as a 'superior' everyone was shocked he wasnt laid off just a few months ago with other hockey staff...he was pretty far down superiority wise Last edited by 1952boyntoncollector; 12-19-2017 at 07:04 PM. |
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that could appear to be as much as an overture as sending a male photo with no shirt on.. Last edited by 1952boyntoncollector; 12-19-2017 at 06:59 PM. |
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I am also not as astute as deciphering cues as you, I would take the photo as a much more overt gesture than an invite for carrot cake.
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Incidentally with all of these people losing their jobs, Bocci hasnt lost his at the present time so there are many people that dont agree with you. Last edited by 1952boyntoncollector; 12-20-2017 at 02:31 PM. |
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How many married men do you know that have texted shirtless photos of themselves to people they work with? Maybe it's a very common occurrence. I am not saying it's innocent little girl against big bad wolf. I will say in today's climate it would be an extremely dumbass thing to do.
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