Posted By:
Jim VBJoann,
I agree with you that the core issue is that Addie has to step up and do the right thing, but...
A part of addie's twisted logic was that he shouldn't have to do anything because he mailed the card and could "prove" it. Although I believe he did mail the card several people pointed out that there is at least one way to have the same proof he has and not have ever mailed the card. As long as he was holding that position, both on the board and in private emails to me, the only rebuttal was to let him know that his "proof" was less than ironclad.
I don't think he ever intended to do anything wrong here, but when it went bad he asked for advice, and then attacked everyone who offered any, if it didn't agree with his own thinking. He was apparently hoping to get the board to say it was OK for him to do nothing.
I for one, will never see it as "piling on" when he takes the time to send me three emails telling me to stop posting about him while at the same time, can't take the time to make contact with the buyer.
If this is piling on, the board should do more of it.