PayPal friends vs goods

bnorth · #1 04-09-2022, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Pjere

Hey guys,
I�m currently considering a deal for a significant chunk of change. I�ve noticed the pattern of Net54 members using PayPal f&f putting the buyer at total risk. I�ve gotten used to this as I see generally people trust each other in this community and for good reason. The buyer on my potential deal has more posts over the years than I, but I have been much more active lately and like to think I�ve established myself. However he is pretty set on using goods & services and is willing to pay the fees. This used to be the way I did every deal until PayPal was used against me as the seller because the buyer was a weasel and changed his mind and tried to get a partial refund back (not a Net54 member). Should I have any reason for concern selling via PayPal goods and services? Thanks for any feedback.
Thanks
Peter

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Depends on who the buyer is and if you are getting a fair price after taxes.

Jim65 · #2 04-09-2022, 09:39 PM

I've been burned in the past by a long time trusted member, (on another forum). Lesson learned, I never use F&F for any transaction anymore.

Packages can get lost or damaged, disputes about condition can happen. If a seller is afraid of buyers who choose to protect themselves, thats not a seller I would trust anyway.

Pjere · #3 04-10-2022, 05:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Jim65

I've been burned in the past by a long time trusted member, (on another forum). Lesson learned, I never use F&F for any transaction anymore.

Packages can get lost or damaged, disputes about condition can happen. If a seller is afraid of buyers who choose to protect themselves, thats not a seller I would trust anyway.

As previously mentioned I thought the same way until operating on this forum. I was surprised at the amount of people who only do friends and family, but it seems to be mostly tax and profit related. I have a good friend who sold a Mike trout auto rookie via PayPal goods. If I remember right, the buyer decided to return it but returned a different card, yet the tracking showed returned and PayPal awarded the return so the seller was out a trout and $12k! How is the seller protected in that scenario?

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Jim65 · #4 04-10-2022, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Pjere

As previously mentioned I thought the same way until operating on this forum. I was surprised at the amount of people who only do friends and family, but it seems to be mostly tax and profit related. I have a good friend who sold a Mike trout auto rookie via PayPal goods. If I remember right, the buyer decided to return it but returned a different card, yet the tracking showed returned and PayPal awarded the return so the seller was out a trout and $12k! How is the seller protected in that scenario?

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Theres no way for a seller to be protected in a situation like that. Its one word against another. Unfortunately, those situations do happen.

Should PayPal reimburse your friend $12K on his word that the wrong card was sent back? Thats a scumbag buyer, PayPal didn't do anything wrong.

Eric72 · #5 04-11-2022, 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Jim65

Theres no way for a seller to be protected in a situation like that. Its one word against another. Unfortunately, those situations do happen.

Should PayPal reimburse your friend $12K on his word that the wrong card was sent back? Thats a scumbag buyer, PayPal didn't do anything wrong.

Beyond scumbag; that buyer is a criminal committing five-figure fraud (presumably) through the mail.

G1911 · #6 04-11-2022, 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Pjere

As previously mentioned I thought the same way until operating on this forum. I was surprised at the amount of people who only do friends and family, but it seems to be mostly tax and profit related. I have a good friend who sold a Mike trout auto rookie via PayPal goods. If I remember right, the buyer decided to return it but returned a different card, yet the tracking showed returned and PayPal awarded the return so the seller was out a trout and $12k! How is the seller protected in that scenario?

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This is exactly why I just prefer friends and family. There's fraud risk either way (to the seller one way, to the buyer the other way), so the net gain is 0. I don't deal with people I don't know by at least reputation for any sizable amounts.

bnorth · #7 04-11-2022, 08:55 PM

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Originally Posted by G1911

This is exactly why I just prefer friends and family. There's fraud risk either way (to the seller one way, to the buyer the other way), so the net gain is 0. I don't deal with people I don't know by at least reputation for any sizable amounts.

Couldn't agree more. Plus I have had one of those only pay with G&S screw me twice. I rarely sell on here but in my listing I put if paying with G&S buyer was to pay fees. Buyer agreed and then never paid the fees. I over looked it and then the same buyer done it a second time. I was pissed but over looked it again. Unfortunately they have never bought another item from me so I could refund their payment and tell then what a cheap POS they are.

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