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Lawyers think their terminolgy through. Unfortunately, most others don't. ![]() P.S. It has nothing to do with terminology, as offer means the same in both circumstances. It's about application of that terminology. And the principle that a seller gives an invitation to offers when they sell something, the buyer makes an offer, and the seller chooses to accept, was not only well thought out, it was developed, and has been a longstanding principle, for hundreds and hundreds of years. It just works. The "etiquette" put forth here only works in a perfect world, and in spite of the delusion of some people, even a small community like this is not a perfect world. Last edited by OhioLawyerF5; 02-23-2025 at 06:58 AM. |
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I'm curious how people on both sides of the issue feel about this situation:
A potential buyer posts a claim in a B/S/T thread at the asking price and sends a PM at that time. Before the seller responds, they get an offer from another member offering more than the asking price. Neither buyer is objectionable to the seller. They end up taking the higher (later) offer simply for the money. Personally, I wouldn't necessarily bear any ill will toward the seller in that situation. And yet, if I were the seller in such a situation, I would feel guilty not taking the first offer. |
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![]() I do! For the listing price not to be treated as a firm offer to sell at that price is absurd. And you'll find it very difficult to find any stock broker who does not agree with me. Offer/Ask=the Price at which a Seller agrees to Sell. Bid=the Price at which a Buyer agrees to Buy.
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I'm sorry if you don't like how the housing market works, but I don't think it's going to change just to make you happy.
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B/S/T translations.
![]() "Asking $1000 net to me dlvd." Translation: if you offer me $1000, I'll consider it. "I'll take it!!" Translation: I offer $1000, should you choose to accept it. "PM sent" Translation: useless attempt to discourage subsequent offers because being first is irrelevant.
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Yes, that's what many customers would say about stockbrokers back in the day!
It's interesting though. If you asked me now whether I should have become an actual stock broker many years earlier in the 1970's, I'd now say "Sure!" But if you asked me whether I'd like to be a stock broker now, I'd say "No!" Times have changed. Quote:
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1. You had a unique item of a former player, let's say a vintage game used jersey 2. You list it for $1000, then go to a movie 3. When you return home, you have 2 people wanting to buy it. The first, timestamped at 7:30, is an auction house that will buy to flip. The second, timestamped a couple minutes later, is from the player's son. Turns out the player passed away the previous week and the family is in mourning. Would you hold to your rigid, dogmatic principle of how pure and efficient markets should work (first offer to buy gets the cheese,) or take a more human approach? |
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Man people choose some weird hills to die on here ...
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I’m guessing that part of the angst is probably driven by a comparison with eBay.
If I post a piece using the BIN function on eBay, and someone clicks the button to buy it, they can reasonably expect that I’m actually going to sell it to them. If 30 mins later I get a PM from another buyer offering me more, and I cancel the original transaction, then the original buyer probably has a right to get their dander up. Now, obviously, the BST here is not eBay. But for some buyers, they might feel like similar principles should apply.
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Straight forward scenario/question:
Seller has item for sale in BST. Buyer A makes the offer to pay asking price and agrees to all ship methods, etc. Seller sends confirmation the item is sold to Buyer A. A couple hours later, the seller receives correspondence indicating Buyer B is interested and seller tells Buyer B, "sorry, it's sold". Buyer B ups the offer by 20%. Seller decides they'd want more cash and will take the offer. QUESTION - How would you feel as Buyer A? I read what the lawyers are writing and the word "contract" comes up. Is there really a legally binding contract based on a couple emails? In my book, the seller's a butthead for backing out for any reason. I wouldn't pursue it further, just avoid the seller. I wouldn't create a post indicating the seller's a butthead, but fact is, the seller is a butthead if they renege on a deal (for just about any reason). Yes, it's the sellers item and prerogative to do whatever they choose, but if you have an agreement, honor it.
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However, none of the deals I personally have been involved in here on net54 have been anywhere like that.
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I'm not a lawyer but your explanation makes perfect sense to me - some people are never going to be convinced of anything, though.
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Imagine going to Walmart to buy eggs. You put a carton of eggs in your shopping cart and bring it to the register to check out. When you get to the register, the store manager decides not to accept your offer to purchase the eggs at the price stamped on the price tag. Instead, he takes the eggs from your cart and gives it to the lady behind you in line. And he accepts her offer to purchase instead. Not sure how that would play out in your community, but I know how it would play out in mine. The law doesn't impose a duty on Walmart to accept offers to purchase from the first customer who shows up with an offer at the stated price. But Walmart does it anyway. |
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Try to play the moral superiority card all you want. It doesn't change the fact that there might be valid reasons why a person might choose to not sell to the first taker, and they shouldn't have to, nor does anyone have the right to question them. Maybe one day when a person who has proven to be a difficult buyer or a scammer is first taker on one of your cards your integrity will be put to the test. Then we'll see how strongly held your pharisaical convictions really are.
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But do you want to have to publicly answer questions if you do choose to sell to the second person? Should you have to? It seems to put you in a position to exercise LESS etiquette that way, given you might have to say something negative about a person you don't want to deal with, rather than just have it accepted that you have the prerogative to sell to whomever you want. We should all just respect that right, and not demand answers. |
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I guess your argument is now that Walmart should have a higher duty (beyond that required by the contract principles you cite) because they are in the corporate retail business. And that is distinguishable from a person who posts an advertisement to sell a card on a well known, public internet forum that is viewed by hundreds, if not thousands, of potential buyers on any given day. That's a much more nuanced argument than the one you seemed to be making before. |
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You are terribly misstating my argument. I never once said Walmart is held to a higher standard. In fact, it's the opposite. I used them as an example because they aren't held to a higher stadard. I distinguished their circumstances because you tried to use them as an example, falsely equating the circumstances and reaction to applying their legal rights. As is clear in this thread, one might choose to forego exercising a legal right they have for various reasons. Walmart, as a large public retailer, has different reasons to forego that right than a private individual selling personal property on an internet message board. If you can't see the distinction, then I don't know what to tell you. |
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We have established that the seller doesn't have a legal obligation to sell anything to the customer. Is it your argument, however, that the seller would be acting in accordance with community standards, if he declines to sell it to that customer, but then sells it instead to the next guy who walks in and also offers to pay the full listed price? |
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As a lawyer who has negotiated multimillion dollar deals and is pretty well versed in contract law, I have to disagree with some of the posts on this thread. If a post is made (such as the one made here) that advertises specific cards for sale and that post includes the material terms of the sale, which besides a description of the item for sale, typically includes the sale price including shipping and handling, and the method of payment, then that is the offer, and the first to accept those terms is the rightful buyer and has, in layman’s terms, “first dibs.” Absent a good reason, an individual cannot simply choose whom to sell to.
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In a BST post, who is the offeree? For an offer to be binding upon acceptance, you need an offeree, as I understand it. Otherwise, like an advertisement, it's an invitation to treat/invitation to bargain. The specificity of the post is not the point.
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"eBay sellers have control over who can bid on and buy their items. You can block individual buyers or set buyer requirements based on specific criteria.
If you’ve had an issue with a buyer and don’t want them to purchase or bid on your items, you can add them to your Blocked buyers list. They'll be unable to place bids or buy from you until you remove them from the list."
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Fisher v. Bell (1961) and Partridge v. Crittenden (1968) set forth the longstanding principle that posting or advertising an item for sale is an "invitation to treat" and not an "offer to sell." The cases you are referring to are Carlill v Carbolic Smoke Ball Co (1893) and All Phases of Services Ltd v Johnson (2014). They suggest that what is usually an invitation to treat can become an offer to sell IF the advertisment clearly indicates and intent to be bound, and the intentions of both parties are clear and agreed upon, demonstrated through the conduct of the parties involved. So as I said, posting a card for sale, with a price, is a invitation to treat and not an offer UNLESS the listing clearly states that the first person to accept will get the card. |
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I have been on both sides of this dilemna on the bst. There have been atleast 2-3 occasions where I underpriced cards significantly and they sold quickly...and I honored the prices as it was MY FAULT.
Additionally I recall a time where I won an autographed pete rose kahns weiner card on the auction page here...at a bargain price. The seller attempted to reneg as he was not happy with the selling price. The net54 goonsquad backed me up and the seller was "encouraged" to honor the deal. 50 shades of grey? |
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Hmm,
Seems like there's little to no reason for listing something on B/S/T with a "listening to offers" request when you can easily put whatever number you want and then just change your mind or delay to see if something better comes along. Then again I guess you can do that anyway, even if you start with a defined price. Makes me wonder what is meant by the term etiquette as applied to the net54 "marketplace".
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Yes, at Net54baseball they can do it 1 time, as stated above. In over 20 yrs I don't remember it happening more than maybe a few times in many thousands of transactions (that I know about). So, it's sort of moot but yeah, as I said above, I think everyone gets 1 grace situation where they get buyers or sellers remorse. BUT, I am not a lawyer and this only pertains to the rules on this forum. If there is some law that overrides this, then I guess anyone can sue anyone in the US...I think almost all of us wish, at one time or another, we didn't do a deal we just did. I think it's nice to know you can make a mistake and not be banned. I would like to know about it and think I hear about most of that kind of stuff. A few members have been banned for not following through in situations but those were one-offs.
IF it hasn't happened, consider yourself lucky. And I don't think it's the worst thing in the world to call off a deal. It's not good but not the end of the world. That said, I keep my word on all of my deals, but I do remember a situation where someone bought something off of my website. It hadn't been updated in a long time and 1 card was way, way off. So yeah, I called that one off as I wasn't going to eat about $7000....
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Some real estate transactions involve millions of dollars. Why don't we hear of widespread lawsuits, and why would the transaction price ever be higher than the list price? According to you, first buyer to offer full ask gets it, period. No need for him to go above that figure, and futile for a subsequent offer. Or does the law trteat real estate as a separate animal (and if so, why?) |
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